There are some parts of life where you can’t accept things that are mediocre and make compromises. Luckily, these are all things which are worth fighting for.
People, who have no idea how to live, usually make you feel bad for wanting to do things to change your life for the better. They call you egoistic – just because you are trying to do something that will make you happy.
However, if you constantly live worrying about what other people are going to say, you are going to have a very calm and very boring life.
If your passion for life scares other people away – let them run. If your enthusiasm is too much for them – let them go. Your life should be a reflection of what you love the most and what makes you happy.
You shouldn’t be scared to talk about that. If you act like you don’t care, life will serve you more of what you don’t care about. It is simple.
But being neutral is also not good. People expect you to always be ready to go with the flow. Maybe this is a good thing in some parts of life, but not in all.
There are millions of other things you can’t control and it is best to forget about them. Usually, these are things connected to what others think, do and feel. Never expect anything from others, because you can neither control them nor change them.
The only thing you can change is what you allow to happen in your life. You can only control your own life.
Therefore never let bad people influence your life and never spend time with boring people. Never go out with a man who makes you wait and doesn’t keep his promises. And never settle for a bad coffee – make one yourself or go buy another that is better.
Life is too short to be wasted on things that bore you. Stop being neutral. Focus the things you can do that will make you happy.